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First break up ... how to deal ?
I had my first boyfriend in december, and unfortunatly .. we broke up. At first, i was all for it, but then we sort of kissed and i felt differently towards him. i loved him more. then i asked him to get back, and he said lets wait two weeks. but halfway during the two weeks, i found out he liked MY BESTFRIEND. so i asked him, and he didn't deny it, and i asked him since when? and he said the day we broke up. which really pissed me off, 'cause she was going to date him. now i haven't talked to him in about a week, because im still in love with him, or i feel so.. and i want to get back. but i heard he got a girlfriend.. and its only been 2 weeks? im really lost and confused. did he ever love me? or was he just using me? what do i do .. this is my first break up. please help meFirst break up ... how to deal ?
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How do I deal with a break up?
My boyfriend and I just recently broke up december 1, he told me that he wanted to put our relationship on hold so that way I can get my life in order, he said that he wanted to be friends and I was cool with that, everything was going good until I found out that he is seein someone else it broke my heart into pieces, he told me the other day that he missed me, that he still loves me and that he made a huged mistake of breaking things off with me he wanted to get back together, i was fine with that then he gose and dates someone else. wtf?!?!? i have been trying to move on with my life but everytime i do i get set back..... how do i go about dealing with this, I still love him and miss him i just don't know what to do anymore
please help meHow do I deal with a break up?
Move on! Life is too short for these kinds of problems with him!How do I deal with a break up?
Hmm sounds like this guy wants to see other girls but keep you warmed up in case he changes his mind. What did he mean you get your life sorted out? If he loved you he would stay with you and help you with that stuff. Move on from this guy please!
He is using you. If he wasn't using you, he wouldn't go behind your back seeing someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't let him waste your time. I wish you the best. Merry Christmas !
The only reason he said he made a mistake is more than likely because the girl he wass saying did something and he wanted attention. TRUST ME. Just ignore him and move on with your life.
please help meHow do I deal with a break up?
Move on! Life is too short for these kinds of problems with him!How do I deal with a break up?
Hmm sounds like this guy wants to see other girls but keep you warmed up in case he changes his mind. What did he mean you get your life sorted out? If he loved you he would stay with you and help you with that stuff. Move on from this guy please!
He is using you. If he wasn't using you, he wouldn't go behind your back seeing someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't let him waste your time. I wish you the best. Merry Christmas !
The only reason he said he made a mistake is more than likely because the girl he wass saying did something and he wanted attention. TRUST ME. Just ignore him and move on with your life.
Best ways to deal with a break up?
not childish ways like get back at him but how to move on and be ok. i was with him for 13 months he was my first love its hard but im doing good i was just wondering if anyone had any good advice.Best ways to deal with a break up?
Just keep yourself busy . Go out with friends , maybe take up a hobby . Just don't sit around and do nothing . Stay busy mami
Just keep yourself busy . Go out with friends , maybe take up a hobby . Just don't sit around and do nothing . Stay busy mami
How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend of your husband's trying to break up your marriage?
My husband and I had a big argument and an old ex girlfriend of his would not stop bugging him until he told her what was wrong... Now she has damn near ruined everything how do you get rid of the ex?How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend of your husband's trying to break up your marriage?
she should not be involved. period. she was a part of his past and you are his present and future. if he intends to keep you in his life he needs to cut ties with her. it is disrespectful to you and your relationship. How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend of your husband's trying to break up your marriage?
First of all your husband has no business carrying on a friendship with his ex-girlfriend. You should have put a stop to that on day one.
Second you need to tell your husband that he either wants to make a go of his marriage and continue having you as his wife or he wants his ex-girlfriend to take your place, because he can't have both of you.
His ex-girlfriend can only be a problem in your marriage, if you continue to allow him to be friends with her. She needs to go and you need to put your foot down.
Its not about you getting rid of the ex. The question is why is he still dealing with her, and hes with you. Her problems are her own, to worry about. You are his wife, put your feet down, and give orders. Basically your husband needs to decide you or her. Shes a grown *** women, she should be able to handle her own. How the hell is she still in contact with him, or why is my question...Handle your business girl, cause if it was you, handling an ex-boyfriend he would not be having it.
You don't get rid of her, he does. He didn't tell her anything that he didn't want to. She can't force him to speak with her or answer her questions. The biggest problem here is him, not her. What the hell is he even talking to her for?
It's not your job, it's his. He needs to put you first. This woman definitely needs to be put in her place but he should be man enough and have the sack to tell her to leave him the hell alone. Don't let your husband's wussiness drag you into a cluster f**k.
It has nothing to do with her. If you had a wonderful, happy marriage, he's truly in love with you, he won't even look at her sexually or romantically.
It's all about your relationship. Nothing about her.
You and your husband are giving this ex girlfriend way too much power...If you both stand united...she can't succeed in breaking up your marriage....no matter what she does...but it sounds like your husband doesn't have the balls to tell her to butt the hell out of your lives....
So why is He still talking to her?!
How to get rid of an ex? Stop communicating with them! Block her number, block her email and just ignore her.
This is all up to your husband if he wants to stop it he can.
Honestly another person can not break up a relationship. It's the people involved in the relationship and what they do in any given situation.
Get your husband to stop talking to her. She is an ex for a reason. Remind him of those reasons.
you gotta deal with it as a couple...like tell him not to talk to her etc..BUT dont go after the ex urself...tahts what they want...so dont fall into that trap...
Kick her ***!!!
she should not be involved. period. she was a part of his past and you are his present and future. if he intends to keep you in his life he needs to cut ties with her. it is disrespectful to you and your relationship. How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend of your husband's trying to break up your marriage?
First of all your husband has no business carrying on a friendship with his ex-girlfriend. You should have put a stop to that on day one.
Second you need to tell your husband that he either wants to make a go of his marriage and continue having you as his wife or he wants his ex-girlfriend to take your place, because he can't have both of you.
His ex-girlfriend can only be a problem in your marriage, if you continue to allow him to be friends with her. She needs to go and you need to put your foot down.
Its not about you getting rid of the ex. The question is why is he still dealing with her, and hes with you. Her problems are her own, to worry about. You are his wife, put your feet down, and give orders. Basically your husband needs to decide you or her. Shes a grown *** women, she should be able to handle her own. How the hell is she still in contact with him, or why is my question...Handle your business girl, cause if it was you, handling an ex-boyfriend he would not be having it.
You don't get rid of her, he does. He didn't tell her anything that he didn't want to. She can't force him to speak with her or answer her questions. The biggest problem here is him, not her. What the hell is he even talking to her for?
It's not your job, it's his. He needs to put you first. This woman definitely needs to be put in her place but he should be man enough and have the sack to tell her to leave him the hell alone. Don't let your husband's wussiness drag you into a cluster f**k.
It has nothing to do with her. If you had a wonderful, happy marriage, he's truly in love with you, he won't even look at her sexually or romantically.
It's all about your relationship. Nothing about her.
You and your husband are giving this ex girlfriend way too much power...If you both stand united...she can't succeed in breaking up your marriage....no matter what she does...but it sounds like your husband doesn't have the balls to tell her to butt the hell out of your lives....
So why is He still talking to her?!
How to get rid of an ex? Stop communicating with them! Block her number, block her email and just ignore her.
This is all up to your husband if he wants to stop it he can.
Honestly another person can not break up a relationship. It's the people involved in the relationship and what they do in any given situation.
Get your husband to stop talking to her. She is an ex for a reason. Remind him of those reasons.
you gotta deal with it as a couple...like tell him not to talk to her etc..BUT dont go after the ex urself...tahts what they want...so dont fall into that trap...
Kick her ***!!!
How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
How do you deal with the fact that you lost your virginity to a guy who only wanted sex and doesn't even care?How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
You cry your tears and you decide that this was a very valuable (and expensive) lesson learned. Now you know.How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
I know you feel used. Learn from your experience. Next time remember that sex is a gift that should be reserved for marriage. He is only serious about you if he wants to and does marry you!
Not bad , you should be happy as everything happened with your consent . Where were your virginity when you super enjoyed the date or was it a date rape ?
better search another guy and see whether he cares and then have sex and other stuff, otherwise yu will end up in the same way.better marry someone soon.
NEVER ALLOW TO DO THE SEX THAT TYPE OF GUY.IF AN ACCIDENT WITH SEX JUST FROG ET THAT GUY LIFE LONG . THAT GUY WANTS ALL ABOUT BODY, NOT OUR SOLE FEEL. JUST FROG ET IT.
YOU REALIZE THAT NEXT TIME YOU'LL PICK THE GUY BETTER AND YOU'LL HAVE MORE SELF RESPECT NEXT TIME!!!!!
Learn from your mistakes and move on
I'm sorry to say but it seems that women today are asking for this kind of treatment. In the first place, how long did you know this guy before you let him have sex with you?
You cannot buy a man's love and affection by having sex with him. Most men are so full of themselves that something like taking a woman's virginity is like a prize he can go brag about but when they want to marry they want their partner to be a virgin. So what do you think you are to him? Just another easy woman he conquered and had a roll in the hay with.
Sorry if I sound like I'm preaching but it just pisses me off to see women fall for this kind of treatment over and over again. Don't you have at least some pride and exclusivity as far as who uses your body goes? Because that is exactly what it is. You let men use you and abuse you and then you are indignant and upset when they are tired of you and do not want you anymore.
Just think about this. What did you achieve by letting some stranger because that is what he was, hump you? Did you gain self respect? Did you at least try and refuse sex until you knew him better and if not, did you expect him to respect you after his easy conquest?
What really pisses me off is that women want to be treated equal to men and rightfully so but by behavior like this they just pull themselves down to a step below men again. They just become another plaything for momma's boy once again. In other words you achieve the same status as a whore but you don't even charge your customer.
You don't know who this man is or where he was before you let him have sex with you. He can have some venereal disease like AIDS and you don't care but oh when the time come and you realize your life is gone down the tubes then you blame men.
So let 's end it here and sorry for the harsh words but this is the real world and I've seen many women ruined by stuff like this and that is why I'm ranting against promiscuity but please try and develop some value system and rate yourself higher that a common street walker.
As far as dealing with it goes, that's it. Deal with it and try and get yourself a decent boyfriend who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
You cry your tears and you decide that this was a very valuable (and expensive) lesson learned. Now you know.How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
I know you feel used. Learn from your experience. Next time remember that sex is a gift that should be reserved for marriage. He is only serious about you if he wants to and does marry you!
Not bad , you should be happy as everything happened with your consent . Where were your virginity when you super enjoyed the date or was it a date rape ?
better search another guy and see whether he cares and then have sex and other stuff, otherwise yu will end up in the same way.better marry someone soon.
NEVER ALLOW TO DO THE SEX THAT TYPE OF GUY.IF AN ACCIDENT WITH SEX JUST FROG ET THAT GUY LIFE LONG . THAT GUY WANTS ALL ABOUT BODY, NOT OUR SOLE FEEL. JUST FROG ET IT.
YOU REALIZE THAT NEXT TIME YOU'LL PICK THE GUY BETTER AND YOU'LL HAVE MORE SELF RESPECT NEXT TIME!!!!!
Learn from your mistakes and move on
I'm sorry to say but it seems that women today are asking for this kind of treatment. In the first place, how long did you know this guy before you let him have sex with you?
You cannot buy a man's love and affection by having sex with him. Most men are so full of themselves that something like taking a woman's virginity is like a prize he can go brag about but when they want to marry they want their partner to be a virgin. So what do you think you are to him? Just another easy woman he conquered and had a roll in the hay with.
Sorry if I sound like I'm preaching but it just pisses me off to see women fall for this kind of treatment over and over again. Don't you have at least some pride and exclusivity as far as who uses your body goes? Because that is exactly what it is. You let men use you and abuse you and then you are indignant and upset when they are tired of you and do not want you anymore.
Just think about this. What did you achieve by letting some stranger because that is what he was, hump you? Did you gain self respect? Did you at least try and refuse sex until you knew him better and if not, did you expect him to respect you after his easy conquest?
What really pisses me off is that women want to be treated equal to men and rightfully so but by behavior like this they just pull themselves down to a step below men again. They just become another plaything for momma's boy once again. In other words you achieve the same status as a whore but you don't even charge your customer.
You don't know who this man is or where he was before you let him have sex with you. He can have some venereal disease like AIDS and you don't care but oh when the time come and you realize your life is gone down the tubes then you blame men.
So let 's end it here and sorry for the harsh words but this is the real world and I've seen many women ruined by stuff like this and that is why I'm ranting against promiscuity but please try and develop some value system and rate yourself higher that a common street walker.
As far as dealing with it goes, that's it. Deal with it and try and get yourself a decent boyfriend who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
How to deal with a break up?
wow this is really depressing me. and im not the type of guy who would really do something like this, as in posting a question for the whole world to see my problem but what the heck...
so ive been with this girl for a year and a half and we just broke up because of a stupid argument on jealousy and trust. we've been arguing for a while now and its finally over... ive practically spent half of all my high school with this girl and now i just feel empty and lost. whats even worse is that its my FIRST relationship. at school she torments me by constantly hanging around with the same friends as mine making it impossible to even socialize with my friends. any tips on how to get over this, cause god its killing me...How to deal with a break up?
Be glad that it happened now instead of three years from now. Then go do something constructive with your life.How to deal with a break up?
It's going to be really hard at first. you are going to cry, then get pissed, then cry some more. no matter what the feelings you had for her will never go away. But just try you best to move on, and if you can't try to get back with her. Don't do anything stupid, like date another girl to make her jealous, cuz that would make everything worse.
i've had a similar problem... you just have to accept that its over and playing games is the next phase... if you ignore her she'll probably go out with one of your mates (in this case they aren't your mates) and there's nothing you can do about it. Join a sports team or study group or something and build a new life, keep in contact with your mates and eventually they'll either come round to. also keep this experience in mind, it helps to know where you went wrong for future reference.
It happens.
But has she done anything bad to you?
Like give you glares or looks?
It's weird questions.
But, try and go through it.
Live like you usually did without the girl in yourlife before you met her. If it doesn't reallywork and you can't get the sitatuon out of your mind, then confront her or soemthing.
apologize for what happened before?
Go to a grocery store, and stock up on Ben %26amp; Jerrys. Then go to BlockBuster and stock up on chick flicks.
Wait....
Youre a guy...sorry, cant help you.
To get over this is to know more or even get into a new relationship! To some people it seems not true or why bother to hurt yourself again. Some sugguest to occupy yourself with tonz of things so you will not think of her! Others will say, go join some sports or things that you enjoy to keep you busy! The fact is, in the middle in the night, alone, your mind will still filled of the memories of being with her. Worse, the things you do in the day might make you think of the past.... The point is, u felt alone and without love. Once you met someone you like, you would be thinking about her all the time and soon you will forget those who have hurt u. Tested n Proven!!!
so ive been with this girl for a year and a half and we just broke up because of a stupid argument on jealousy and trust. we've been arguing for a while now and its finally over... ive practically spent half of all my high school with this girl and now i just feel empty and lost. whats even worse is that its my FIRST relationship. at school she torments me by constantly hanging around with the same friends as mine making it impossible to even socialize with my friends. any tips on how to get over this, cause god its killing me...How to deal with a break up?
Be glad that it happened now instead of three years from now. Then go do something constructive with your life.How to deal with a break up?
It's going to be really hard at first. you are going to cry, then get pissed, then cry some more. no matter what the feelings you had for her will never go away. But just try you best to move on, and if you can't try to get back with her. Don't do anything stupid, like date another girl to make her jealous, cuz that would make everything worse.
i've had a similar problem... you just have to accept that its over and playing games is the next phase... if you ignore her she'll probably go out with one of your mates (in this case they aren't your mates) and there's nothing you can do about it. Join a sports team or study group or something and build a new life, keep in contact with your mates and eventually they'll either come round to. also keep this experience in mind, it helps to know where you went wrong for future reference.
It happens.
But has she done anything bad to you?
Like give you glares or looks?
It's weird questions.
But, try and go through it.
Live like you usually did without the girl in yourlife before you met her. If it doesn't reallywork and you can't get the sitatuon out of your mind, then confront her or soemthing.
apologize for what happened before?
Go to a grocery store, and stock up on Ben %26amp; Jerrys. Then go to BlockBuster and stock up on chick flicks.
Wait....
Youre a guy...sorry, cant help you.
To get over this is to know more or even get into a new relationship! To some people it seems not true or why bother to hurt yourself again. Some sugguest to occupy yourself with tonz of things so you will not think of her! Others will say, go join some sports or things that you enjoy to keep you busy! The fact is, in the middle in the night, alone, your mind will still filled of the memories of being with her. Worse, the things you do in the day might make you think of the past.... The point is, u felt alone and without love. Once you met someone you like, you would be thinking about her all the time and soon you will forget those who have hurt u. Tested n Proven!!!
What is the best way you have dealt with a break up?
Four agonizingly long days ago, I went through my first break up. I'm fourteen, and have somehow managed to drink some sort of alcohol on three out of four of those nights. I know I shouldn't drink, but I do it anyhow.
I'm just wondering how any of you girls or guys (if they even care about break ups..) deal with this sort of pain..?
I'm tired of hurting. I want to move on, but I can't see myself dating anyone else. I don't love this person I went out with, but I do care about him a lot. I can't sleep. The only advice I've gotten is to 'not think about it.' I can't just do that.. I can't take the only thing I used to think about, and just stop thinking about it. I don't really know how to move on.
What's the best thing you guys can tell me to help..?
Please..?What is the best way you have dealt with a break up?
Talk to friends and other guys!What is the best way you have dealt with a break up?
your 14 yrs old its an unfortunate part of life but there will be more of these to come trust me hes not the only guy that will be in your life.resorting to alcohol will only delay the pain because when you sober up it will still be there.time is the only thing that will heal your pain. you will undoubtedly find another guy and forget this break up or at least wont feel so hurt
I had a case like this @ 30 years ago (I'm now 52).
My best friends took me out to a bar.
Got me very drunk.
Got me laid.
That worked.
Since you're 14, the ';drunk'; advice is NOT for you.
But move on: find a new guy.
Giving yourself time to get over it and keeping busy is the only thing that heals a broken heart. Alcohol dulls the pain, but doesn't take it away. Believe in yourself. The pain will eventually fade away.
Best thing you can do is tell yourself its his lost,not yours.Do good with your life get your education look good.Do what you can to focus on yourself,make everything about you better.Ask JESUS to heal your heart this always help me to move on.
you need to realise for yourself that it wasnt meant to be. Only then will you get over the person. Unfortunately, things like this aren't constrained by time, so all I can do is wish you the very best of luck.
Just embrace the pain. If you ignore it, it will come back to haunt you. It's OK to experience bad emotions but, i'm afraid, the only remedy is time.
well if my gf were to break up with me id prolly be mad and prolly try to win her back or try to drug my way so i can either forget her or move on if she didnt want me back. but in your case if u dont wanna get back with him id just move on
my advice is to hang around your girlfriends for a while, you know girls night. pretty soon you will realize that its not bad at all to be single........ as my friend said today quote '; im single and ready to mingle!'; lol
Best way to get over someone is to get under another one ;)
keep yourself busy with your friends! you have fun and dont think about it. and delete his number forsure.
Cried and cried for days, it gets easier with time....thats all i can say. Dont worry, just keep busy. Maybe dont drink so much :s
Set his belonings to fire...it may not have solved anything...but I sure as heck felt better
keep yourself busyyyyy!
find another guy
well i went through lots of break ups and all i can tell you is just ride it out only time can fix it
get someone new, and hang with friends
I hear you and I've been there. What ever you do just don't drink cause you are only hurting yourself. You don't want to be an alcoholic. You're only 14 , you got your life ahead of you. At this age there is too many fish in the pond. I think you should live you first teenage yrs. with no worries, nobody is worth drowning yourself for. Because remember, at this stage it's just Puppy Love, so have fun with your friends and enjoy your youth.Try to keep busy..best of luck
Why does it have to be pain... if you are really mature enough to date then you will know how to handle it (a break up) and not be torn apart. I mean I can't give that secret to you it has to be learned because just telling you in words will cause some sort of confusion for you. For starters, don't sit there and mope any longer tomorrow get up and get out of the house with some friends and have fun... i wish you didn't drink, life would be easier but hey go at it the best way you know how.
Okay chances are this break up is going to suck balls. And its fine, if you don't want to be with anyone else thats fine. The pain is just because you didn't have the click. That thing that you finally feel, when you are relieved that hes gone, genuinely relieved.
Not just fake spiteful speeches to your friends about how much your glad he's gone. Those maybe feel empowering for a while but at the end you still have a throw up feeling of something hard pressing down on you. The sigh as many times as you breathe feeling.
You just have to wait. Once you've invested time in something, its going to be hard to dive into a new routine. But its like getting up at 8am every morning for three years, then suddenly having to get up at 6 and being worn out and lost and a bit pissed that you can't just go back to the schedule you had before, where you get to sleep in more, and stay up later. Its harder not to wish for 8am wake up schedule. Go ahead be a little pissed your boss says you have to get up earlier and come to work from now on. But don't let it ruin your favorite tv shows. Since life is just a bunch of ';**** yeahs!'; and ';**** ups'; you just need to find a bunch of yeahs during the course of your life. Like milestones. That way even though you have to get up at 6am and go to work you can still say, ';**** yeah! I'm getting paid today, I'm gonna go get some pizza!'; Just look for the pizzas.
its really hard, i know :( but after a while, you will heal . for me it was easier and quicker because i lost contact with them and i didnt see them everyday , but it still took 2 months, around that time . im kind of going through a ';break up'; right now, but not exactly.. its complicated, but i know how you feel and to be honest with you, im going crazyy and i really dont know what to do anymore, becuase i have never felt this way :( the best thing people say to do is to move on, but the best thing i say to do is to just stay friends with that person, because you dont want to forget, you want to forgive :) hope i helped
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I will tell you straight. GOING STRAIGHT INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOOD. When you have a break up you find somthing that you love to do. You have to strengthen yourself. Going into another relationship will not teach you how to be independent and constanly depending on love and males arms weakens the mind. Trust me i have a friend that everytime she gets cheated on or broken up she jumps to another dude. she's constantly crying over males and she acts like shes scared to be alone. Now she is loosin alot of friends and kind of including me because it makes your mind frame different and might become fake because you will put love before yourself. Your still young... you have time to settle and find the right one. build yourself, find out who you are and what you like to do. Its plenty of men in the world. dont rush.
well it really only makes sense that you need to decide if the whole breakup thing bothering you is because of the fact you broke up and not over it. you did say you was not in love with him. Or if it is the whole fact of the breakup to begin with. Like thinking why did he not like me enough or did i do something wrong to cause this or did i not try hard enough.because if its the latter then we all do that at one point in our lives figuring out what type of person we are. And if we need to change or if they do. hope i helped.
Ohh sweetie. My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after 16 months so I know how you're feeling and I'm 22. I'm still getting over it and trust me alcohol makes it sooo much worse. Everything you feel is normal and it'll take the hurt awhile to go away. I still cry but not as much as I used to. The best thing I did was when I start thinking of the good times we had (and you do a lot) I remind myself of the bad and the fact he broke my heart. Its okay to cry, it really is and there will be a day when you don't cry anymore because you realize he's not worth the tears.
Don't just jump back into dating. It'll be awhile before you think you can move on. I'm barely getting there myself. I'm not ready to date again either but hanging out doesn't hurt. Especially if he broke up with you because you owe him nothing.
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I'm just wondering how any of you girls or guys (if they even care about break ups..) deal with this sort of pain..?
I'm tired of hurting. I want to move on, but I can't see myself dating anyone else. I don't love this person I went out with, but I do care about him a lot. I can't sleep. The only advice I've gotten is to 'not think about it.' I can't just do that.. I can't take the only thing I used to think about, and just stop thinking about it. I don't really know how to move on.
What's the best thing you guys can tell me to help..?
Please..?What is the best way you have dealt with a break up?
Talk to friends and other guys!What is the best way you have dealt with a break up?
your 14 yrs old its an unfortunate part of life but there will be more of these to come trust me hes not the only guy that will be in your life.resorting to alcohol will only delay the pain because when you sober up it will still be there.time is the only thing that will heal your pain. you will undoubtedly find another guy and forget this break up or at least wont feel so hurt
I had a case like this @ 30 years ago (I'm now 52).
My best friends took me out to a bar.
Got me very drunk.
Got me laid.
That worked.
Since you're 14, the ';drunk'; advice is NOT for you.
But move on: find a new guy.
Giving yourself time to get over it and keeping busy is the only thing that heals a broken heart. Alcohol dulls the pain, but doesn't take it away. Believe in yourself. The pain will eventually fade away.
Best thing you can do is tell yourself its his lost,not yours.Do good with your life get your education look good.Do what you can to focus on yourself,make everything about you better.Ask JESUS to heal your heart this always help me to move on.
you need to realise for yourself that it wasnt meant to be. Only then will you get over the person. Unfortunately, things like this aren't constrained by time, so all I can do is wish you the very best of luck.
Just embrace the pain. If you ignore it, it will come back to haunt you. It's OK to experience bad emotions but, i'm afraid, the only remedy is time.
well if my gf were to break up with me id prolly be mad and prolly try to win her back or try to drug my way so i can either forget her or move on if she didnt want me back. but in your case if u dont wanna get back with him id just move on
my advice is to hang around your girlfriends for a while, you know girls night. pretty soon you will realize that its not bad at all to be single........ as my friend said today quote '; im single and ready to mingle!'; lol
Best way to get over someone is to get under another one ;)
keep yourself busy with your friends! you have fun and dont think about it. and delete his number forsure.
Cried and cried for days, it gets easier with time....thats all i can say. Dont worry, just keep busy. Maybe dont drink so much :s
Set his belonings to fire...it may not have solved anything...but I sure as heck felt better
keep yourself busyyyyy!
find another guy
well i went through lots of break ups and all i can tell you is just ride it out only time can fix it
get someone new, and hang with friends
I hear you and I've been there. What ever you do just don't drink cause you are only hurting yourself. You don't want to be an alcoholic. You're only 14 , you got your life ahead of you. At this age there is too many fish in the pond. I think you should live you first teenage yrs. with no worries, nobody is worth drowning yourself for. Because remember, at this stage it's just Puppy Love, so have fun with your friends and enjoy your youth.Try to keep busy..best of luck
Why does it have to be pain... if you are really mature enough to date then you will know how to handle it (a break up) and not be torn apart. I mean I can't give that secret to you it has to be learned because just telling you in words will cause some sort of confusion for you. For starters, don't sit there and mope any longer tomorrow get up and get out of the house with some friends and have fun... i wish you didn't drink, life would be easier but hey go at it the best way you know how.
Okay chances are this break up is going to suck balls. And its fine, if you don't want to be with anyone else thats fine. The pain is just because you didn't have the click. That thing that you finally feel, when you are relieved that hes gone, genuinely relieved.
Not just fake spiteful speeches to your friends about how much your glad he's gone. Those maybe feel empowering for a while but at the end you still have a throw up feeling of something hard pressing down on you. The sigh as many times as you breathe feeling.
You just have to wait. Once you've invested time in something, its going to be hard to dive into a new routine. But its like getting up at 8am every morning for three years, then suddenly having to get up at 6 and being worn out and lost and a bit pissed that you can't just go back to the schedule you had before, where you get to sleep in more, and stay up later. Its harder not to wish for 8am wake up schedule. Go ahead be a little pissed your boss says you have to get up earlier and come to work from now on. But don't let it ruin your favorite tv shows. Since life is just a bunch of ';**** yeahs!'; and ';**** ups'; you just need to find a bunch of yeahs during the course of your life. Like milestones. That way even though you have to get up at 6am and go to work you can still say, ';**** yeah! I'm getting paid today, I'm gonna go get some pizza!'; Just look for the pizzas.
its really hard, i know :( but after a while, you will heal . for me it was easier and quicker because i lost contact with them and i didnt see them everyday , but it still took 2 months, around that time . im kind of going through a ';break up'; right now, but not exactly.. its complicated, but i know how you feel and to be honest with you, im going crazyy and i really dont know what to do anymore, becuase i have never felt this way :( the best thing people say to do is to move on, but the best thing i say to do is to just stay friends with that person, because you dont want to forget, you want to forgive :) hope i helped
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I will tell you straight. GOING STRAIGHT INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOOD. When you have a break up you find somthing that you love to do. You have to strengthen yourself. Going into another relationship will not teach you how to be independent and constanly depending on love and males arms weakens the mind. Trust me i have a friend that everytime she gets cheated on or broken up she jumps to another dude. she's constantly crying over males and she acts like shes scared to be alone. Now she is loosin alot of friends and kind of including me because it makes your mind frame different and might become fake because you will put love before yourself. Your still young... you have time to settle and find the right one. build yourself, find out who you are and what you like to do. Its plenty of men in the world. dont rush.
well it really only makes sense that you need to decide if the whole breakup thing bothering you is because of the fact you broke up and not over it. you did say you was not in love with him. Or if it is the whole fact of the breakup to begin with. Like thinking why did he not like me enough or did i do something wrong to cause this or did i not try hard enough.because if its the latter then we all do that at one point in our lives figuring out what type of person we are. And if we need to change or if they do. hope i helped.
Ohh sweetie. My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago after 16 months so I know how you're feeling and I'm 22. I'm still getting over it and trust me alcohol makes it sooo much worse. Everything you feel is normal and it'll take the hurt awhile to go away. I still cry but not as much as I used to. The best thing I did was when I start thinking of the good times we had (and you do a lot) I remind myself of the bad and the fact he broke my heart. Its okay to cry, it really is and there will be a day when you don't cry anymore because you realize he's not worth the tears.
Don't just jump back into dating. It'll be awhile before you think you can move on. I'm barely getting there myself. I'm not ready to date again either but hanging out doesn't hurt. Especially if he broke up with you because you owe him nothing.
This article helped me a lot. Try reading it sometime:
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