How do you deal with a break up?? 10 points?

i just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years..i had to..he hit me..i'm 19 and even though i know i had to break up with me the pain is killing me..has anyone gone through the same thing?? any advice? since i only hung out with have i'm not even close to my friends anymore..how long do u think it will take to heal..he still calls me and calls me and calls me??do u think i'll feel the most pain when he stops calling..please help


i don't want to end up going back to him because i know he will hit me again!!!How do you deal with a break up?? 10 points?
FIRST OF ALL CUT HIM OFF TOTALLY, SCREEN HIS CALLS , HE'LL TRY AND TRY UNTIL HE'S FED UP,HE'S A LOSER FOR HITTING YOU,


ALL I'M GONNA SAY IS UR STILL YOUNG U DON'T NEED THIS ****





DROP THAT LOSER NOW!!!!





GOOD LUCKHow do you deal with a break up?? 10 points?
defiantly DONT go back. break ups are very difficult especially one of 5 years.....if he still is calling you then no matter how hard it is DONT answer his calls.....you need to distance yourself away from him and talking to him on the phone or really anytime isn't going to help since you just broke up.....i don't know how long it will take because everyone will heal at a different pace.....just go out make new friends and keep yourself busy....your pain will eventually start to fade away maybe slowly but it will. just keep yourself away from him until you have completely gotten over him because then it will be way difficult to ever get over the relationship





hope i helped :)
Think about this, if he truly loves you then he wouldn't be hitting on you and causing you pain. He has some type of mental issue! Be glad that you were able to leave him. Find comfort in the fact that you will be able to love again. If you can, change your number beacuse anytime he calls it will only open old wounds. It will get easier over time.








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i'm so sorry that he hit you: a guy like that is not worth your time and affection. i think that you should really find some good friends who will help you through this. and i don't mean alcohol... maybe avoid relationships for awhile... take some time for yourself..maybe try yoga?


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no dont go back to him, it might take yo months to get over him trust me ive been threw it. just make sure you throw all the gifts and memories away and try not to think of him i know it will be hard.


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Cut him out of your life. Get rid of anything that will remind you of him.
just remember HE hit you. what hurts more?
Watch the movie ';Yes Man'; and do what Jim Carrie does.