How do I deal with a break up, when shes always on my mind?

hey - just broke up with a one and a half year relationship for a bunch of good reasons (we were distant, it wasnt working, she was younger, etc etc) but problem is I still love her.. Ive been distracting myself with friends during the day, but alone at night all i can think about is how much i miss her, and how id be happier with her than i am now, even though i know it wouldnt work out.. how do i get over her? should i try seeing someone new, or wait a while? does it get easier? I know tryna just be friends is the wrong route cause it would drive me nuts, but its hard not to cave if it means seeing her.. advice?How do I deal with a break up, when shes always on my mind?
Start occupying yourself at night...get out of the house and around others that care about you.





Don't start seeing someone new yet...your break up is too fresh for that. You would end up talking about your ex too much. Just chill, find new interests but not a new date....yet.How do I deal with a break up, when shes always on my mind?
It takes time... maybe find your self a new hobby for night times. see how many points you can get up on this thing... or go out to d pubs.. go to d cinema....


Good luck! I know it seems impossible but time is the greatest healer of all!
Break ups are hard, no doubt about it. Problem is you can't spend all your time with family, friends or at work. At some point you have to be alone and that is the toughest time.


My advice is to watch movies or read books or anything that you can do when alone that will take your mind off her.


Maybe getting back together is the answer. Ask yourself...am I happier with her or without her? If the answer is with her then consider giving it another go.


Also, how is she handling the breakup?
why not be just friends? it works. just don't think about how much you LOVE her, think about how much you CARE about her.
Dude, you pulled the trigger on the relationship, but frit. HOBBIES.





Don't go back to something you know is not going to work. That's backwards thinking.
honey it takes time to get over someone just be patient it will happen dont sit and dwell on her get out there and have some fun ok
perform yoga or tell her that u cannot live without her
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I know that its hard to get over someone and it will take time...but think about it..maybe theres a reason why that u guys broke up..like you said if you gyys were ditsnat it wasnt the right relation ship for you. It always takes time to get over these types of things but you know what..theres definetly the right girl for you and than you wont have to worry about loosing her. Love is hard...but you have to keep on trying until you find the right one. So i wish u look and i hope u feel better, And out of al the different answers ur going to get i hope u find the perfct way for u to be happy and even happier than ever. :)
People will tell you that you need to find someone else or go drinking or spend all your time with friends but that only last a little bit, after it all you still have the heart ache. You need to do what you want to do, If you want to throw something, do it. If you want to punch something, do it. If you feel like screaming, do it till you cant speak. You need to find your own closure. You must always remember the words ';its over';. It helped me.