Friday, August 20, 2010

How to deal with a break up?

wow this is really depressing me. and im not the type of guy who would really do something like this, as in posting a question for the whole world to see my problem but what the heck...


so ive been with this girl for a year and a half and we just broke up because of a stupid argument on jealousy and trust. we've been arguing for a while now and its finally over... ive practically spent half of all my high school with this girl and now i just feel empty and lost. whats even worse is that its my FIRST relationship. at school she torments me by constantly hanging around with the same friends as mine making it impossible to even socialize with my friends. any tips on how to get over this, cause god its killing me...How to deal with a break up?
Be glad that it happened now instead of three years from now. Then go do something constructive with your life.How to deal with a break up?
It's going to be really hard at first. you are going to cry, then get pissed, then cry some more. no matter what the feelings you had for her will never go away. But just try you best to move on, and if you can't try to get back with her. Don't do anything stupid, like date another girl to make her jealous, cuz that would make everything worse.
i've had a similar problem... you just have to accept that its over and playing games is the next phase... if you ignore her she'll probably go out with one of your mates (in this case they aren't your mates) and there's nothing you can do about it. Join a sports team or study group or something and build a new life, keep in contact with your mates and eventually they'll either come round to. also keep this experience in mind, it helps to know where you went wrong for future reference.
It happens.


But has she done anything bad to you?


Like give you glares or looks?


It's weird questions.


But, try and go through it.


Live like you usually did without the girl in yourlife before you met her. If it doesn't reallywork and you can't get the sitatuon out of your mind, then confront her or soemthing.


apologize for what happened before?
Go to a grocery store, and stock up on Ben %26amp; Jerrys. Then go to BlockBuster and stock up on chick flicks.





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Youre a guy...sorry, cant help you.
To get over this is to know more or even get into a new relationship! To some people it seems not true or why bother to hurt yourself again. Some sugguest to occupy yourself with tonz of things so you will not think of her! Others will say, go join some sports or things that you enjoy to keep you busy! The fact is, in the middle in the night, alone, your mind will still filled of the memories of being with her. Worse, the things you do in the day might make you think of the past.... The point is, u felt alone and without love. Once you met someone you like, you would be thinking about her all the time and soon you will forget those who have hurt u. Tested n Proven!!!

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