How to deal with a break up?

whats a good way to handle a bad break up especially if you dont have any friends and no life just sitting home all day.....what can i do i hate sitting around crying all dayHow to deal with a break up?
It makes it doubly hard when you don't have anyone to lean on and hear you out once in a while...





What were you always kind of interested in learning how to do while you were in the relationship, that you really never pursued, either because the relationship took up too much of your time, or he thought it was a dumb idea, or he didn't want to do it with you, or something? There probably was something...





Now's a perfect time to start looking into going and doing it. Start Googling right now and getting information on whatever that thing was, and where there are places in your area or classes/workshops that might cater to that particular interest.





You're going to meet people (whether you like it or not), and while your doing your chosen activity...you'll likely be making some friends too. That'll help. Promise.





For me...it was pole dancing. It always looked so cool, so I took a class and I absolutely LOVED it. Met women of all ages/races who had a similar (albeit twisted) interest in learning how to pole dance. We had a blast during class and would laugh so much at ourselves and each other...it really took the mind off the breakup.





Loved pole dancing so much, I ended up putting a pole up in my living room so I could practice at home and take more classes. Now I have all sorts of pole dance DVDS, music....keep trying to learn more tricks, and keep looking for more classes.How to deal with a break up?
it's hard but u have to keep yourself busy i'm going through the same thing right now i just got out of a four year relationship and it's really hard but i keep myself busy finding friends on myspace and working doing things to find friends so i could keep my mind off of him. Just hang out with family u don't have to have friends to have a life...don't worry u will find someone else crying is not going to make your situation any better so relax and keep yourself busy.
be strong from inside, realise that a break up cannot harm you like that , it comes and it goes you have still life to live


Do gardening -nature have most healing secrets hidden in it


have a good sleep


play with your pet ,


read some novel


watch a good comedy movie


just stand in front of mirror and admire your beauty.


try to forgive the person you had breakup with and remember the same feelings may be prevailing on that side too...
Well you could get out into the world and go to a club or you could do what I did. In order to get over my ex I took kkickboxing classes and it really helped.