How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?

How do you deal with the fact that you lost your virginity to a guy who only wanted sex and doesn't even care?How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
You cry your tears and you decide that this was a very valuable (and expensive) lesson learned. Now you know.How do you deal with a getting over a guy that dated you only to have sex with you and then break up with you?
I know you feel used. Learn from your experience. Next time remember that sex is a gift that should be reserved for marriage. He is only serious about you if he wants to and does marry you!
Not bad , you should be happy as everything happened with your consent . Where were your virginity when you super enjoyed the date or was it a date rape ?
better search another guy and see whether he cares and then have sex and other stuff, otherwise yu will end up in the same way.better marry someone soon.
NEVER ALLOW TO DO THE SEX THAT TYPE OF GUY.IF AN ACCIDENT WITH SEX JUST FROG ET THAT GUY LIFE LONG . THAT GUY WANTS ALL ABOUT BODY, NOT OUR SOLE FEEL. JUST FROG ET IT.
YOU REALIZE THAT NEXT TIME YOU'LL PICK THE GUY BETTER AND YOU'LL HAVE MORE SELF RESPECT NEXT TIME!!!!!
Learn from your mistakes and move on
I'm sorry to say but it seems that women today are asking for this kind of treatment. In the first place, how long did you know this guy before you let him have sex with you?





You cannot buy a man's love and affection by having sex with him. Most men are so full of themselves that something like taking a woman's virginity is like a prize he can go brag about but when they want to marry they want their partner to be a virgin. So what do you think you are to him? Just another easy woman he conquered and had a roll in the hay with.





Sorry if I sound like I'm preaching but it just pisses me off to see women fall for this kind of treatment over and over again. Don't you have at least some pride and exclusivity as far as who uses your body goes? Because that is exactly what it is. You let men use you and abuse you and then you are indignant and upset when they are tired of you and do not want you anymore.





Just think about this. What did you achieve by letting some stranger because that is what he was, hump you? Did you gain self respect? Did you at least try and refuse sex until you knew him better and if not, did you expect him to respect you after his easy conquest?





What really pisses me off is that women want to be treated equal to men and rightfully so but by behavior like this they just pull themselves down to a step below men again. They just become another plaything for momma's boy once again. In other words you achieve the same status as a whore but you don't even charge your customer.





You don't know who this man is or where he was before you let him have sex with you. He can have some venereal disease like AIDS and you don't care but oh when the time come and you realize your life is gone down the tubes then you blame men.





So let 's end it here and sorry for the harsh words but this is the real world and I've seen many women ruined by stuff like this and that is why I'm ranting against promiscuity but please try and develop some value system and rate yourself higher that a common street walker.





As far as dealing with it goes, that's it. Deal with it and try and get yourself a decent boyfriend who will treat you with the respect you deserve.