How do you deal with a break up you don't want?

TWO DAYS AGO MY BOYFREIEND SAID HE WANTED TO BREAKUP BECAUSE HE HEARD I WAS MESSING AROUND ON HIM. THAT IS A TOTAL LIE AND HE KNOWS IT. I THINK ITS JUST AN EXCUSE. I LOVE HIM AND WANT TO BE WITH HIM. WHAT DO I DO.......How do you deal with a break up you don't want?
How was his attitude before this?


Was he picking fights with you? Not returning phone calls?


Always hinting around that you were cheating or checking out some other guy?


Would he bring up a new girl that he had just met and wouldn't stop talking about her?





If he's done any of the above, then he's been doing the cheating himself, turned things around to make you look like the guilty party, so that way he'd have a clear conscious to mess around with someone new.How do you deal with a break up you don't want?
Time is your BEST FRIEND, trust me. I know it sounds stupid and ancient but it works. A break up is like a punch in the stomach but you CAN take it just like a boxer. In this life, only tough people survive. You came into the world alone and you will be placed in a coffin alone when death comes knocking on your door. Learn to deal with pain. People are not objects. In terms of your cheating, I just think he made up this lie to find a logical reason for breaking up with you.
He is not much of a boyfriend anyway if he really did believe some stories about you and broke up with you because of it. Sounds like it was an excuse for him to pick a fight with you so he could break up with you. You cannot make him want to be with you if he doens't want to. If you start calling him or texting and beg to talk to him etc. you will only make him think less of you. Give yourself time to get over him...it will hurt for a while but you will get over him.
It might be a blessing in disguise.....who wants a liar?
If he lies to get the relationship finished then it is really time for you to move on all be it a hurtfully desission
Think about how you can love someone who isn't man enough to be honest with you.





Let him go.
Accept the things that you cannot change. Also, if you don't have his trust now you never will. False accusations create alot of difficulty in a relationship and HIS trust issues are just the beginning my dear. Let him believe what he wants because he will anyway. You can keep trying to convince him otherwise until the cows come home. This will be a miserable waste of Your time and energy.
If your bf made up a story just to get out the relationship, then seeking a reconciliation will only make you hurt worse. Let him go, cry over it for a few weeks, then start looking for Mr. Right.

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