im crying my heart out right now.. iv been ina relationship 4 8 motnhs and just got dumped right now. an di dont kno how to deal with it.... help me please..How do you deal with a break up?
Hang out with your friends and realize you're better off w/o him! Find someone else%26lt;3
GL!
Answer me, anyone?
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my boyfriend of little over 3 years just dumped me 3 days ago. first i cried and cried to let it all out. i thought of all the negative things about him so i could realize he was not perfect for me. then listen to songs like ';i will survive'; and empowering songs like that so you can start to move on and feel better. and of course hang out with your good friends and keep busy to keep your mind off things. everyone has different ways of dealing, this is how i did it. just remember this is part of life, it happens to everyone and you will meet someone else down the road who will love you even more than your ex did
Breathe. Just focus on that for a minute.
Now you obviously loved that person. But love finds other ways. Eventually the pieces will fall back into place.
Get some of your girlfriends over and have a crazy sleepover party! Or, if you are older and totally over that, have a night on the town with some friends. Do whatever it takes to get your mind of this right now.
Oh yea, and try to throw stuff away that this person gave you. Not out of bitterness, because that only makes it worse. Just think that you are starting over and cleaning the slate. That way, if someone new comes in, you don't have to run around replacing things.
Crying is perfectly fine. People may say that it doesn't help, but those people have no idea what they are talking about. Crying helps to relieve that emotional stress. It may not help in the long run, and it shouldn't be the only thing you do, but still....
Maybe you should just curl up with some ice cream and a funny movie. Talk to a best friend or dance around your living room.
Whatever you do, know that this will pass, and everything will be okay. It's okay to be really sad; just know that things will get better eventually!!!
%26lt;3
hey there honey, don't worry because you're not alone.and cry you're heart out becausee its all okay you need to get all that sadness out sweetie ..don't ever let you're feelings get bottled up...next you need to hold you're Friends and family close to you and spend alot of time with them...this will help you realize how many people care for you and love you, next keep yourself busy like take some interesting classes and focus on other things instead of dating right now because trust me its really bad if you try to jump into a new relationship after another..than you need to slowly start getting rid of memories of him.texts,voice-mails,pictures, etc... and save this for the last because you're suppose to do this at your strongest stage...and one day you will find a great person who wont just dump you you deserve much better than that..x0x0
hope i helped good luck on everything
ok some of you people are just mean to this girl. thats not right. look i know how you must feel. my fiance just cheated on me recently with a married woman. he denys it but i know the truth. now im stuck living with him and living with someone in my parents house who love him more than me. and im stuck they will choose him over me. im sorry he broke up with you. dont worry you will find someone else to love you and you deserve happiness. just as i do. and i will in time find someone who will appreciate me. i should of just broke up with him when he left to ukiah but stupid me stayed and now im really stuck. well someday i will find someone who will appreciate me just as im sure you will find someone. try to hang out with your friends and forget him. if he really loves you he will be back if you want him too. in the mean time worry about yourself and take care of yourself. work go to school and hang out with your friends. men are worthless...
today i got dumped and i got over it because the boy that dumped me was a jerk cause i am a great girl plus i bet other boys like you so when you pass by your ex flrit wit another guy or just pretend you don't notice him dont seem depress or look like you will date the school nerd be you whit an ege
Well you never really get over relationships that last that long.. and no one on here can help you like you need helped.
I suggest getting a few friends over.. getting a gallon of ice cream.. a chick flick and some old jokes that will make you laugh.
It will all be okay.
It just takes time.
i just got out of a year and a half relationship. i was so upset. go on a walk with your friends and just think of all the good things you can do now. you can talk to any boy you want. dont worry.
listen to:
i miss you-blink 182
unwinding cable car-anberlin
take a picture-filter
then see how you feel
By letting it all out. Cry, think, and let time pass. You have to continue doing what your doing. It will take time but sooner or later you'll be fine. You must believe it to be true though.
You are still alive and breathing so life isn't over. It happened before and it's going to happen again...it's part of life.
Dry your eyes and pull it together...no little boy (or girl) is worth your tears.
Enjoy your new freedom.
Whatever you do....DON'T LISTEN TO A BUNCH OF DEPRESSING SAD BREAK UP MUSIC !!!!!!!!!!!!!
It will only prolong the pain.
Go shopping!!!!
sorry girl...
but you got to just cry ur heart out and talk about it. and get him out of you. theres not sertant thing to do. sorry theres not a book on how to mend a broken heart
go party, seriously, go and PARRRRTAYYYY.
Then rebound.
do everything possible to forget about him and ignore him and **** like that
you can meet my m8 jack daniels he always cheers me up
Go out with your friends,get drunk and find someone else
use my motto
';if she doesnt like me, den she is good enuf for me';
hope dis helps. if u doesnt like u and want u. den he isnt up to ur standard and doesnt deserve u!
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