aaaawww honey, I am so sorry to hear that. I just broke up with my boyfriend too. and I feel your pain. Breaking up is never easy and there is no way to avoid the pain. rebounds are the worst thing you can do especially when you have not yet addressed the pain and issues with the breakup yet.
Do go out and have fun with your friends though. You need their support now. take up a new hobby or do things to pamper yourself. when the thoughts of him come, acknowledge them but don't brood over them. If you broke up with him because he wasn't the one for you or he hurt you, then its good to imagine someone else with him. Let them deal with his crap and not you. Think about things in a positive way, by identifying the things you didn't like in your BF now you know what you want in a man. By breaking up with Mr. wrong, you are even closer to finding Mr. right. By staying with him, you are only blocking your chances for finding true love with the man for you. So He's done you a favor, you are now free.
When you are ready, start dating again for fun. No intimacy just go out and have fun. You are special and you deserve love and one day you'll meet that great man who will cherish you even more than you love hm.
Take Care hun and remember, TIME HEALS ALLBest ways to deal with a break up?
Walk in the rain and wash him out duhhhh. No just kidding, let it go. Get a puppy or something that will keep you busy. Don't get another boyfriend. You're not ready for another relationship that's hectic. Besides if he finds out you've moved on too fast, he might feel degraded to nothing and be pretty gloomy for the rest of his life.
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1) After you have dumped him, go home with some ice cream and good films
2) Call mates
3) Have a night in with your friends, thinking about the reasons you don't need him
4) Set yourself a period of time to get over it, after that, no more mourning!
5) After that time has passed, go out and find some other guys to flirt with. it might feel wrong at first, but it's for the best i swear!
Good luck xxxxx
do some activies, like swimming, aerobics or something, this will keep your mind off things and you will also meet some new people :)
spend time with your friends xD because they are the people that will NEVER leave you.
believe in yourself and be grateful and happy of what you have,
dont let just one thing put down your whole life...
you still have your lifetime to go and find your soul mate :)
you will never be able to let go completely to someone really close to you like that. just take it one step at a time, the best ways ive found were to let it all out any way possible. i prefer to write music and make my pain productive. or just eat lots of junk food and watch sad movies
you shouldnt just go and get someone new for the sake of it cuz you could end up hurting them... im sorry sweet but you just have to keep your distance and try to keep him out of your mind... friends are good in these situations, maybe go out with some girls and just have a good time
My advice from personal experience, keep busy with friends and family. Before you know it, time will have elapsed and you may have already moved on to Mr. Right.
Only time can mend the heart...
do things that you couldnt do when you were in a relationship. listen to hardcore rap music that has nothing to do with love lol and DONT LOOK FOR ANOTHER MAN because if you force yourself to look then youll be disappointed. he will come to YOU! (:@
It just takes time. Do yourself a favor and don't call, text, e-mail, FB, etc. Time and space will eventually do the trick
find some one new.
keep busy.
eat ice cream (:
DONT think of it.
and turn on ashley tisdales its alright its ok song
you'll be fine, my dear (:
hang out with other girls and guys. try not to hang aoround this guy as much as you can avoid it. keep distracting yourself and youll get over it soon enough. good luck %26lt;3
find someone new.
he'll find someone two, and eventually you'll both let go.
or,
just get some serious girl on girl time.
hang with you girls to forget about him.
Get a new boyfriend. Soon the old one will be a distant memory.
look for some one else try to keep your mind forces on different things not on him. do a lot with your other friends. i know how you feel good luck
go out and have fun party club it ,just enjoy life to the fullest
DNC= Do Not Contact....works for me when dealing with as break up
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