How to deal with a break up knowing it was for good?

i have been in a relationship with a guy for 7 years now, only recently we broke up, i am finding it sooo hard to get over this and the worst part is i see him in class, which makes it even more painful. the reason why we broke up is that he abused verbally a lot my family n me, but even after all this why i feel pain for a person who gave me endless tears and depression? how to be happy n move on irrespective whther he studies with me or not?How to deal with a break up knowing it was for good?
Remind yourself why you left this guy. Verbal, mental and emotional abuse, is ABUSE. You did the right thing. It takes time for all wounds to heal. Time heals all wounds.





Move on! Live life to the fullest. Have faith and believe that someday when you least expect it, a man will come into your life that is worthy of you and you of him. Until then be happy.





I am proud of you for leaving an abusive relationship!How to deal with a break up knowing it was for good?
That was a long and probably very loving relationship and yeah, it's gonna be painful and confusing sometimes and take time to move past. I would talk to him, since he might also be hurting from it and he also has to deal with seeing you in class. See if both of you can figure out ways to make it less awkward and painful to see each other. I'm guessing that in a few months/years you and he will graduate or not have to be in class anymore? Until then just hang in there and keep busy with your family, schoolwork, job, friends, and take good care of yourself--get good sleep, eat healthy foods, exercise, etc.
You gotta tell yourself it was all for the best, for your health and well-being to be away from this guy. Change classes if you have to. If you can't, then disregard him in all ways possible. Pick yourself up by the bootstraps, and let it be known to others you are now a free woman and in the market for someone better than he was.