Friday, August 20, 2010

How to deal with a break up?

me and my ex broke up cause of alot of promblems that we had !!and like i still have feeling for him but i want to get over those feeling but i cant!how do i get over those feelings that i have for him?and i kno he has no feeling for me cause he told me!and we only went out for 2months and broke up!How to deal with a break up?
You were only with him for 2 months I know you can develop strong feelings for someone but you moved too soon because it was easy for him to shake you off. My suggestion is go out with good girlfriends have some fun life is not over you will find someone else. This guy is not worth the time and effort emotionally you are spending being sad and depressed. Time and space from him will definitely heal this wound. Next relationship don't get so emotionally involved real quick sit back and watch how the guy is reacting to you. Believe me you will know in a very short time if he is worthy of you.How to deal with a break up?
Alot of people will tell you to just get out there and hook up with someone else. Now this works very well for guys. However, the majority of women are wired completely different from men, and random hookups very seldomly work for women trying to get over someone. The best thing you can do is just go on with your life, and do things to make you feel better about yourself. Go get a massage. Go get a manicure. Get a makeover. Go shopping. Just do what makes you happy, and you'll move on eventually.
Stay busy. Time is what it takes. The feelings will fade with time. Do things for yourself to make you feel good.
i'm kinda in the same situation...
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Works every time...you will have feelling for someone else that can return them.
just forget it all and go on with your life .
Ok, the worst thing to do to get over him is by going out with someone else, so DON'T do that. The best thing to do is to wait on it. It could take a few weeks, or a few months. Honestly when i went out with my Gf and she broke up with me after a month, I decided to go out with someone else, but just couldnt. SO i broke up with her after a few days. Broke her heart, and it hurt me too. So the best thing to do is wait on it
';Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go'; Herman Hesse
Just be busy... don't make a munite that will make you think of him.. Then take away those things that will make you think of him like pictures, his gifts to you.. Be with your friends all the times.. Enjoy yourself so that you will not think of him
Try to keep yourself busy specially with your girlfriends , that's the only healthy way and the worst thing to do it date another person to forget him.

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