How do I deal with a break-up a day before our 1 year anniversary?

We met 1 year ago tommorrow. My heart hurts so bad. We were having a few issues. But nothing that would warrant a break-up. And he did it through a email. I tried to call but he wont pick up his phone. Im so hurt. Please help. Im at work and it is taken everything in my power to keep from crying.How do I deal with a break-up a day before our 1 year anniversary?
pick yourself right up, and dump this loser, a year and an email, and don't think about calling him at all, he's not worth the 364 days or anymore of your time dude......................





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carry on soldierHow do I deal with a break-up a day before our 1 year anniversary?
Maybe call a few friends and go out to dinner or a few drinks. It won't make the pain of what the jerk did go away but at least it'll take your mind off of it for a little whilee.
well, the same thing happened to me (though it was a week before the one year mark, and one week before my birthday). it hurts, and right now, let yourself be hurt. the fact that he couldn't even do this to your face tells you alot about his character. right now you're hurt, but i hope you realize what a disgusting thing he's done. he didn't even respect you enough to dump you face to face. that is definitely jerk behavior.


rely on good friends to help you through it. i could say some sugar-coated crap right now but nothing anyone says will make if feel better. just don't let this get in the way of meeting other people down the road. eventually for me, hurt turned into anger, and then i just let it go. you'll do the same.
just dont let it get the best of you?
Go home and have a cry.





You'll deal with this a lot better than if he did it tomorrow, or the day after.





He's a jerk for doing it over email. I say let everyone know, EVERYONE that he broke up with you over email. It's a huge faux pas. Let it be known far and wide that he's that big of an idiot, first for breaking up with you, and second for doing it online.
i am sorry, it does suck and that's pretty much the only thing people can say.





i was with my previous girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and went to study abroad for 4-5 mons. i figured it would be easy enough and we would get back together when i got back. turns out she calls me from across the f-ing ocean a few weeks before i was due to come home and breaks up with me!





people just suck (men and women) and clearly this man is not worth your time. i know it hurts and no one will begrudge you of that...and take the time you need to recover however you want to recover.





if that means going out and getting drunk so be it, if you wanna go drop $500 on clothes, go for it (make sure you have it in your account first - that could make things worse) - if you wanna sleep and watch tv, your choice and if you wanna go out with friends..by all means!





hang in there, we've all been there..and for those who have not yet, they will be there also at some point. i wouldn't wish it upon anyone, but it will make you stronger and get you to where you want to be in the long run.





good luck hun!
go home and have yourself a good cry, then pull yourself together and move on. Be thankful he showed you his true self before you invested another year with him!
I am sorry for you but it happens. I kow its been said before but it's true...time heals all wounds. And believe me, I have scars to prove it.
Wow that is really low - I assume you tried to e-mail him back and he will not answer that as well. I guess I would want to know what I did to make him pull a stunt like that. If you did someething to offend him or hurt him, it would be nice to at least have the chance to fix the damage. Did he give you any reasons. If not, I would try to spend some quiet time with friends or family til you are in a mood to go out and face the world. It sucks - hope it all turns out for you. There is a saying that says tough times never last but tough people do - I hope that is you.
Go home take a shower and go to sleep. Apperently the guy is a jerk to that in an email the day before. Just go sleep through it and dont do anything tomorrow. And crying does help, it releases the stress.
I'm really sorry...I can't even imagine. That's terrible! Try to go out and have some fun to get your mind off it..only time will help you. Good luck :(
Aww man, that sucks, and I know from experience.





Here's what I did to help get over. A little visualization.


If you can sit by a bon fire, or fire place, that works best, but a candle should work to.


Stare in to the flame. Imagine a photo of you and your ex together, symbolizing your emotional bond to zer. Now, use the flame to burn zer away, leaving yourself unharmed. This helped me break my emotional ties to my ex, and I was able to recover faster.
That really sucks. At least you know what kind of person he is. And do you really want to spend one more day, much less the rest of your life with someone like that?


I know you hurt. I've been there. Go ahead and cry if you want to. Let it all out. Then pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on. You deserve a way better!!!!!!