How does someone deal with a break-up and then ....?

My ex-boyfriend. (but still my love) broke up with me about two weeks ago and i am still strugling from it. What makes it even worse is that the day after the break up he asked out this other girl. It broke my heart to see the one i love, love someone else but now he says that he is over her and wants to go be my boyfriend again...should i say yes?How does someone deal with a break-up and then ....?
My motto is, X's are X's for a reason. I don't give emotional refunds.





An X of mine from back in California began perusing me almost immediately after dumping me, telling me, ';there's just something about you I can't stand.'; He continued on despite me being in another relationship. Last year (10 years after the initial break up) he came for a visit and tried to start things up again. But I remembered his colors and sure enough, they hadn't changed. I couldn't kick him to the curb fast enough. He has still tried to contact me, but as far as I am concerned, I'm dead to him.How does someone deal with a break-up and then ....?
No. The biggest thing here is not caring about your feelings by immediately dating someone else. People can break up with someone, that doesn't make them heartless(if done in the right way). But adding more hurt on by flaunting someone else in your face shows lack of respect. He wanted to see if grass was greener then tries to get back with you when he realises it isn't. You deserve better. Who says he won't do it again. You havn't given yourself time to get over him, because he hasn't let you. Trust me, if he had stayed away, however much you feel for him, the pain would have lessened. Now it's your turn to see if grass is greener, I bet you will find it is!!
no; he's obviously using you. You need to let him know that your not just some pair of jeans that gets dirty and that he can just throw in the wash and pull out whenever he wants. Of course it still hurts; its only been two weeks.


ignore him and give it some time; plenty of time. It took me over 5 years to get over my bf that was using but im OVER HIM =] because he was USING ME. Be strong; look to the good things in life; you're not dying; your healthy; you get fed everyday and you have clothes on your back which is more than i can say for many people in the world.
Dont! What are you a toiletbowl then? Don't let this ';love of yours'; hurt you that way.. Yes he could come up with alibis like she just tried that girl %26amp; etc. but the pain that he had inflicted you is what matters. If you accept him again, then later on things might even get worse and history might repeat itself. Try to see other boys then and let him feel that you are unaffected. Goodluck! Happy New Year!
NO. as tempting as it is, you shouldnt do this to yourself. I dont mean to sound harsh but you need to move on because sweetie, you can do ALOT better than that.
personally, i wouldnt. he dumped you and the next day had a girlfriend. he prolly just wants sex. say no. then to get over it, get your endorphins up. work out, run, play a sport, or get a hobby.
he's using you as a back-up. the next time he finds a cute girl, he'll break up with you, and when she turns him down, he'll come back to you. find a better guy than him.