How to deal with a break up?

Any words of wisdom that I could use? Thank you.How to deal with a break up?
Evaluate any reason given for the break-up. Then, analyze whether you want to change your behavior or appearance to meet the standards that you did not meet in your ended relationship. If you do not want to alter yourself due to your acceptance of yourself and value system, then look for a mate who accepts your values, behavior, and appearance. Many factors you did not volunteer in your inquiry. Add more details to support your question and receive more precise advice from others.How to deal with a break up?
Deal with the aftermath?





Keep your distance and stop all forms of communication for a few weeks or at least until romantic feelings from both people have died out. Be careful about giving or getting false hopes. Rebound dates are nice because they are a sign you are moving on, just don't give that guy any false hopes on the date.





Lastly, spend some time as a single person and get to know yourself again. Find what it's like to be free again and able to enjoy the things you avoided or couldn't enjoy when you were part of a couple.





Mine was smoking cigars in the shower followed by drinking red wine on the balcony in my bathrobe.
As many reasons that people are about to tell you, there is not a solution to it. Everyone handles things differently! I just got out of a really hard break up, and there really is nothing to help! When I say bad break up, I mean bad.... we don't even communicate AT all now. If I text him to ask a question or any little thing, he won't text me back. If we see each other in public, we'll both look the other way. It's crazy how you can't even talk to the person you thought you knew SO much about, and that you were so close to.... I tried EVERYTHING. Nothing seemed to helped. However, we've been broken up for about 2 months now, and things are still tough sometimes, but I'm slowly getting over it. The last time I saw him was a couple days ago, at his grandpa's funeral... I was almost tempted to not go. We still didn't talk to each other, but I decided to be the bigger person and I actually went up to him and told him sorry, and gave him a hug. Still the same awkward-ness between us.
Sit down with a close friend or supportive family member and cry your eyes out at first, then get your journal out and write down whatever thought comes to your mind. Save this as it will help you reflect and sort out your thoughts later on. After doing this, go out with your female friends or even male friends on a night on the town and have fun! Relax and forget about the guy. He obviously didn't deserve you if you two broke up that easily.
First, realize that it probably wasn't your fault. Then realize that this may be the best thing for you, if it didn't work out, it was a dead end relationship.





No matter how much you may still care for him, you still have an infinite capacity to love someone else.





I am confident that there are great guys out there who would love to meet you, but you can't rush it.





You will meet people when you meet them. But, do not let this breakup keep you from noticing a nice guy now. Do not turn yourself off to new people.





Merry Christmas. {{hugs}}
this should definately help, i'll give u all i have as i want you to have a good christmas


-think about evry thing bad about them


-eat,eat,eat


what to eat?


-icecream


-chocolate


watch funny cartoons etc


listen to fun music


think about how much better it is without him/her, freedom, fun etc





hope this helped


i wish u a merry christmas


and a happy new year
how I have dealt with a brake ups in the past that make me feel allot better it may sound cray but It works for me I get laid as soon as I can jt. then I get back out there and go out with friends and play the field It has always made me feel much better.
Burn a cigarette hole into a photo of the ex, then toss it in the sewer. They always come back as rebound zombies if you don't claiming ';oh baby I need you back, I learned my lesson'; just to get your pants one more again.


Take it from a dude.
Breaking up is hard to do but sometime you have to let go and try not to think of that person but you have to realize why you guys broke up what was the reason?. something are better left alone .I know it will be hard to do but only time could heal your broking heart.
It hurts alot and You need to know the pain does go away. Then,learn to be ';You'; without him. Nobody has a ';Magic Answer';. They didn't for me. Give it time,the hurt really does go away and don't rush out and replace ';them'; with someone else. Most guys are like vultures when it comes to vulnerable women after break-ups. C'mon,guys!!! Its true and you know it!!








A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS,MISS BRIT !!!
Try acceptance. That's one way to make sure you can move on with your life. Also remember that you can always find another guy, and that it's not the end of the world. And be grateful you still have your friends, family, and health.





VIVA LA RAZA!
Just spend time with your family, or even puppy, or anyone who loves you a lot.


Showing that person how much better you are handling it than them is always a bonus. Good luck beautiful. Merry Christmas!
Allow time for the wound to heal!


And it will with time,


I 've had my feelings hurt a few times,


and have always made it past it!





Scars from a wound, remind us where we've been,


and show us ';worthy of True Love';!


good luck
It takes a while to get over it, but eventually i just realized that he didn't care about me anymore and that i shouldn't care either.
talk to someone new haha


and if that doesn't work you could just wait it out cause i broke up with my gf about a year ago and i still think about her but im over it


it just takes time
Don't think about the past because you cannot change it but think about the future because you have the option to.
Never dealt.





Does that mean your available?


Kidding.





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1st of all u cant deal though one all u have to do is keep talking and at one point everything well go back to normal
Get on with your life and realize it wasn't working out and wasn't going to.
start a new relationship or find things to do to keep your mind off that topic.
Get drunk, make out with some hot guys. Show him he was an idiot to break up with you. (;
Just takes time hon.
REBOUND
by getting with someone who helps you get over the last one


im here for you always
Dont worry theres more sexier guys out there he was a jerkk to let you go
You need to hang out with friends and get back out there...
listen to screamo
add me on msnger, start a new relationship ;-) lol
dont think of the past just look into the future because that is what u decide
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