Wednesday, August 11, 2010

How to deal with this break-up for her?

Ok, so I had a girlfriend who I recently broke up with for personal reasons. I still care about her dearly as a friend and want to be her friend. When we broke up she said she had no problem with that and I was glad. Yesterday she told me that it hurts too much to talk to me and doesn't want to talk for a few weeks because she thinks she will discover more...is she dealing with this the wrong way or should I listen and just not talk to her even though it hurts..How to deal with this break-up for her?
Let her be. Everyone deals with a break up in their own way, so there is no wrong way to deal with one (unless you're turning to drugs or something like that). For me, it would be impossible to stay friends with my bf if we broke up. It would just be too hard to see him moving on without me. It sounds like she feels the same, so you have to respect whatever she wants to do.How to deal with this break-up for her?
well you have to resepet her its very hard for a girl to get over a break up and when you love some one that you cant have you dont want to be near them. just give her space and she will come around if you dont she might just never. I hope you can still be friends!!
just give her some space because only time will tell is she can really handle being just your friend. Like they say out of sight out of mind. If you do not give her some space then she will never consider being good friends after all you and her have been through.
it's really common to not want to talk to someone for a while after you break up.





a few weeks of not seeing each other is pretty standard.
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Let her go her own way. If she tell you she hurts, I'd believe her. If you want her just as a friend then be her friend and give her the space she needs.
ok you broke up with her of course its hard for her to remain friends while she still has fresh wounds. I would suggest give her some time to heal when shes ready she will come to you
Let her alone. When she is ready to be your friend she will do the talking until then pretend you don't know her.
she still loves you, so if you want her as a friend only, you'd better wait for a while till she gets over.
shes dealing with this the right way ts hard to talk to or be around a person when they hurt you .... she needs time


so you should just stay away, she''ll talk to u when shes ready ;]
just give her space and time to get over it, she sounds understandably upset
just not talk sounds like a lot going on

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