How do I deal with a break up?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year,and I really liked him pretty much loved him.How would I get my mind off of him, and not get tempted to get back with him? I love him,but don't want to be with him. He broke up with me for nothing.How do I deal with a break up?
I've been in the same situation many times with the same guy. I let him walked all over me because I was head over hills about him. He broke up with me many times for no reason and then later on I found out that he was cheating on me. I guess he didn't want to hurt me so he broke up with me instead of finding the fact that he was cheating while he's with me. So please don't be like me. I was stupid enough to take him back whenever he wants to. I was weak. But after a long while, time heals.


Go ahead and cry, throw all the things that will remind you of him. Don't call him or answer his calls. Hang out with friends! Enjoy life! It'll make him upset or regret he dumped you once he sees you enjoying life without thinking of him.How do I deal with a break up?
it all takes time, my dear.


and i know you're probably in a lot of emotional pain. but truly getting over someone takes nothing but times. there are things, however, you can do to help the healing process.


heres a few ideas:


-stick close with family and friends, you need them right now


-journal, write your feelings.


-work out! releases good feeling chemicals and you get hot! :)


-play the field,nothing wrong with harmless flirting!


-go ahead and cry, vent, let it out.


-rent sappy movies and buy a large amount of ice cream ;)


-shop, but save a reasonable amount of money


-enjoy life!





i know it hurts, but everything will be okay. don't give in. if you find yourself tempted to call him or anything think of what you said :he broke up with you for nothing. think of the pain you went through.





best of luck to you. :)