How to deal with a break up? Its been almost a year since we split?

I know the main thing for getting over someone is to stop talking to them. We broke up in January, and I was only able to stop talking to him in July. He is seeing someone else now, and probably doesnt care about me at all anymore.





For the longest time I figured I could ';wait things out';.. like time will just help me get over him. But im tired of that. And i REALLY love him. How can i FORCE myself to be over him?How to deal with a break up? Its been almost a year since we split?
Well, since he's already moved on, I'd say you should too hun. The best thing to do is stay busy and do things that keep your attention away from him. If you love him, you always will. That doesn't really ever go away, but you can't let it ruin your life. You have to fill the void with someone or something else.How to deal with a break up? Its been almost a year since we split?
You will always love him. And he will always love you.





No, not the same kind of love...that you felt when you were together. But you two will always have a special place in each other's heart.





It is time to move on. He has...and you will too.





What's important is, to not romanticize the relationship you had. I mean, you two broke up for a reason.





So don't forget that.





I doubt you're crying still...it has been a year. I think now, you're just a little sad.





So why not put that energy into something else...something for you.





This afternoon, paint your toenails. Get out of those sweats, and head down to the bookstore. Get a tea (or in my case, a VENTI Mocha!) and read some gossip magazines...just on your own.





Or call a GF, and have her join you...so you Girls can discuss the celebrity drama goin' on. It'll make you laugh! I promise!





And it'll get you outta the house...and get your mind off that Ex.





Don't waste any more time on him...he's moved on, you should too.
Personally I am kind of in the same circumstance, but I don't care for my ex anymore. I just need to put some distance behind me. Time will do some of that. I make a list of stuff I did wrong . So next time I won't do it again. Then I make another list of everything I was accused of and how I tried to adjust with no results. Finally I had to leave because of being so depressed over the impossibilty of ever having what I once had. Try the list you deserve better and its out t there. Hold you head up. It will get better,
ik how u feel i had a bad break up and i know time will heal it. sometimes it takes a minute to get a crush on someone and a hour to like someone and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone but that's ok i think time is the only thing that can and will heal u i know its hard to move on but breakups are like glass its better to leave them as they are then hurt ur self trying to put it back together and i don't think u should wait for him anymore its obvious he dosent have feelings for u anymore ...sorry but u cant make someone love all u can do is be someone who can be loved but the rest is up to a person to realize your worth it so just move on its just a chapter in the past so turn the page
How can you force yourself to do anything in your life. You seem so out of control of your thoughts and emotions. You are looking for other to give you something that we can't.


Stop being a loser,and thinking like one. It sounds like you maybe tired of being sick and tired. Maybe now you will do what is right for self.
I don't think that you will ever get over YOUR TRUE love. But if he has moved on, and I know how that hurts, JUST TAKE A MINUTE AT A TIME AND TALK TO THE BIG MAN UPSTAIRS. Sometimes life just sucks. With the holidays right around the corner I am thinking of putting myself to sleep until January 1, 2010. IF 2010 is NOT BETTER than 2008 and 2009, I won't live that much longer. A heart can only take so much hurt and I don't think mine is doing very good right now anyway.
It is over, Lady.





You will only ruin your future if you keep thinking like this.





Move on, and find someone else. he has shown he does not care for you anymore since he is seeing someone else.
By realizing that you guys are over, no other way.
You wasted time hangin on in there hopin he wood come back ??


He has moved on now an to b honest so should you
forget him ur bettah off with out him u love him but time heals all if u 2 were ment to b ull b together
You are wasting time you will never get back. Move on already.