How do you deal with a break-up if no one knew you were even dating and you are still living together?

Sounds complicated huh? First off, we are gay. Second, we were dating for over 3 yrs and no one knew that we were dating and we also lived together. (b/c of work reasons) We decided to go our seperates ways, but its hard b/c I don't have anyone to turn to, plus we still live together. We are trying to work it out though, we both need some space. Anyhow.. whenever I am with my friends/family, they are always asking me where she is at and its hard. I don't know how to deal with it. We plan on living together, which we are ok with. We are going to start over, we just need some space, which I think we are doing ok with. Anyways.. any advice, please.How do you deal with a break-up if no one knew you were even dating and you are still living together?
Wow! I can't even imagine not having any of my friends to turn too. I would try some type of counseling, you defiantly need to talk to some one. PFLAG is a great organization that may be able to provide some type of help and also in linking you with others in your same situation. And you can talk to those parents of gay children; I'm sure they would love to learned an ear. Good luck with your situation, I know it has to be extremely hard for you both.How do you deal with a break-up if no one knew you were even dating and you are still living together?
Man you screwd up. Before you begin a relationship with a guy you need to inform your family that your gay. Lying does not help anyone including you so if I were you I would break off the whole relationship and confess to your family your gay which you should've done years ago.
you need to get out of that living situation and let people around you know you're gay and were with her. that way they will be more sensative to your needs and not be asking thinking it won't effect you, you know?





me and my girlfriend just broke up about a month ago and we were living together. we thought it wouldn't be such a big deal for me to stay there and take about a week to clear my stuff out and not hurry. turns out it was terrible. we were uncomfortable and totally unable to move on. it's not healthy at all and i think you should move out whether you aren't dating or even if you try and start again. me and my girlfriend are great friends (i have moved out) and talk almost everyday, but you really need to do yourself a favor and get into a different, healthier living situation.





hang in there..i know the situation sucks, but you gotta help yourself move on, especially if you have no one to help you now. you have to know it's not ok to stay there.





good luck.
Well, I think that after you guys get under control and situated on working things out. Then maybe you should come out to everybody. You can't hide the fact that you and him aren't gay and living together. People are going to start suspecting anyways. 10 years down the road, and neither one of you still have a girlfriend, people are going to wonder.