How to deal with breaking up with a girl and breaking her heart?

I broke up with my gf of 8 months the other day (we're both at college), anyway I told her in a park with nobody about and she broke down in tears, I didn't want to comfort her too much cause it would just make things awkward for both of us so I stayed for a bit than we left. Anyway I got a text by her friend who seems to think I'm in the wrong for some reason, saying I'm not worth it... It's just so difficult right now..How to deal with breaking up with a girl and breaking her heart?
whats done is done you cant change the past only the future hopefully you didnt make a mistake. Im sure she wont take you back (no offense). If you were ready to see other people thats okay you dont have to be with someone you dont want to its not rightHow to deal with breaking up with a girl and breaking her heart?
There is never an easy way of breaking up with someone, and if the reasons behind doing so, are true feelings then it's best to end a relationship than to live a lie.





The only advise from me is that now this is done, don't mess this girl around by 'playing with her emotions', your decision obviously wasn't an easy one, especially if it's one sided, but hopefully, and eventually you may become friends once again, if given time.





As for this girls friend, it's natural that your ex should confide her feelings, and no-one likes to see someone upset, so her friend is only protecting her as best they know how.





I hope it all works out for you.





Caramac x
Its very hard when your in that position, I was in same position, when I told my hubby I didnt love him anymore, everyone thinks its easier for the person whos do the breaking up but it really isnt. Of course your gf's friends is gonna call u names and say your in the wrong, us girls stick together, but at least u was man enough to tell her it was over. Things will get easier for both of u in time, and maybe u could still be friends after she gets over the hurt, me and my hubby did .
Well my friend what can you do?? all you can do is live your life. Dont worry about it she will be fine.
you should just explain to her y u broke up wit her and apologize to her she might like that if u just tell her the truth and say it like u mean it wish u good luck
nice asshole why don't you just rip out her heart and eat it be gentile
LOL u messed up.. her freinds are gonna get u!! watch out!!
Dont worry honey.. I think some people just live to abuse others on here and youre right of course, they are just narrow minded, and by sounds of some of them, they shoud be tucked up in bed a long time ago..


Tiz better to end it with someone, than go sneaking around or trying to make her finish with you, wich Ive known people do.. they are the gutless ones.. what do some of these answerers and friends of the ex want you to do, stay with her foerever cos you dont want to upset her?? You've done the right thing, dont feel guilty ok.. tiz ur life too isnt it!!


It neva feels good, but as always time heals..yes its sad for the one who's not ready for the break up and actually the one doing the breakup..but if it isnt right, then its not worth wasting time, time stops for no man..and life is for living.. take no notice of the 'kids' on here.. they still have lots to learn..